On Being Useful

It’s been a busy few weeks – juggling multiple deadlines and tasks, all seemingly top priority and all needed yesterday.

It reminded me of the old in-tray exercise – once a staple of job interviews and assessment centres.

If you ever went through a recruitment process in years gone by, you might remember it. You’d be handed a pile of papers and asked to prioritise them under time pressure. It was all about how you handled competing demands in a structured, time-limited way… sounding familiar?!

Fast-forward to today, and perhaps it should be renamed… The inbox exercise… or even the Slack exercise (although this might send the wrong message, thinking about it).

The technology may have changed, but the time pressure remains. In fact, arguably it’s worse.

These days it seems most of us now face a never-ending stream of emails, messages, and notifications. There are so many, in fact, that the real challenge isn’t completing everything on time, but finding the important stuff before it vanishes onto Page 2, or needing the dreaded scroll, of the inbox and hence into near oblivion… with the only possibility of finding later is with the use of PhD level search skills!

All of this got me thinking more broadly about work, career, and the skills we prioritise.

Often, much of our focus in our work lives is on acquiring knowledge and technical skills. They are, after all, important, tangible, and we get certificates!

In our world today, we seem to like simple models, those we can easily measure and optimise… more badges of achievement equals better employees or more success, we think.

However, life is rarely this simple, and often these simple models are not enough… yes, the past achievements may get you noticed, but they can’t guarantee you joining the group, getting an opportunity or being promoted.

It is not the badge itself that is important, but something more fundamental is needed too… a mindset… being useful.

  • How can I help the business run more smoothly?
  • How can I make my manager’s life easier? How can I help them succeed?
  • What can I do that others avoid? What can I offer that others can’t?
  • How can I help my employees succeed?

It is a mindset and a phrase that really works. A question that strips away ego and a focus on achievements of the past, to what needs to be done today… working out where you can best fit in.

Of course, this also goes both ways, this is not just about taking or giving orders, far from it. It is about finding the best spots to contribute, employees to grow, and to help each other succeed.

All of this seems a far cry from the days of that in-tray exercise, although what is true today was most likely true then too. Things change… but not always as much as we like to think, I suppose.

Have a good ‘useful’ week, everyone.

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Creating Space

This past week, I was back in Manchester for the PSR event, discussing how we can better use data and collaboration to support customers.

The weather was glorious, and even the moon popped out to advertise Premier Inn later in the evening.

As with quite a few events recently, I spent some time front of house chairing, helping to keep things running along. It can be a busy time, and also challenging, juggling responsibilities for content delivery while also making time to chat with everyone.

There is a fabulous book, Black Box Thinking, that mentions this… the concept of task loading. When managing multiple competing priorities at once, it becomes increasingly difficult to multitask effectively, and at times I found this a bit of a struggle here. There is, after all only so much you can do and think about, before it becomes overwhelming. So if you were at the event, and I seemed distracted, my apologies, this falls in the category of ‘things to do better next time’.

However, it also made me pause to think about how this dynamic can play out in our wider day-to-day work lives.

When deadlines pile up and priorities compete for attention, it’s also true that these, often smaller, interpersonal moments are the ones that get sidelined. It is being ‘stressed’ I suppose. Yet it is also these very moments that are often the most important for building relationships. The things that don’t show up on the to-do list can make some of the biggest differences in how we all work together.

Multitasking Myth

We often tell ourselves we can multitask.

These days it seems it is common to see people replying to emails during meetings, checking their phone for the next message or simply pushing to get things done as fast as possible.

It’s okay, we all do it! I think somewhat a function of technology (because we can) and need (because we have so many things we need to do) in today’s world.

Even last night I was ‘multi-tasking’ watching a movie on TV (Conclave, it is quite topical)… checking real life details, locations, where I know that actor from, etc.. in the background during the movie… the whole multi-tasking behaviour is getting quite pervasive.

However, the truth is, when the cognitive load gets too high, something has to give. Be it details of the film, or missing chatting with folks in a meeting. You can feel it.

Making time

So what is the solution… I mean we are not about to be asked to do less, know less or be asked to get less done and whilst sitting around the beach relaxing is a great dream, when not on holiday, it is probably not sustainable over the long run!

The day-to-day reality of work and the work day can be complex, but by taking a work event as an analogy, can we look at this as a work day microcosm to help think about solutions?

Thinking of it in this way, I suppose, makes it is really quite simple: we need to be more deliberate about creating free space (at events and in our workday), for these conversations and these connections.

The free space doesn’t have goals, objectives and is probably not on the to-do list. This is the reason it is hard, often, to protect the time. This is the real challenge.

We need to build this free space in, to try to step out of the purely transactional mindset a little, to create the time to chat, relax and enjoy it all a bit more. After all, it matters.

And, whilst it matters for ourselves, it also matters for colleagues. Be it you are a leader, manager or owner of a company, think about how to let other people build in time too, it allows us all to work a little smarter.

Looking forward

So whilst I do think double tasking in front of TV will continue to be a struggle… I mean, how else would I have found out that there are exactly 117 miles of track between Manchester Piccadilly and Milton Keynes station.. so at full speed would take less than an hour… fascinating! 🙂

Workwise, I do think this is something that can be more easily built in and definitely something to ponder a little more once the week starts properly (it is something we have already built in for the next event!).

Hope you have had a nice long weekend (May day in the UK).

Have a good week, everyone.

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Quiet as a… Cat

Sad news last week, my cat died.  She lived to a grand old age, had a good life, and it was not unexpected… So, although it was sad, it was more melancholy than tragedy, and she will certainly be remembered fondly.

Now all of this happened just before the long weekend and like many of these things, although they are something you know has happened, life is busy, had just just have to get on with things without thinking about it too much.

This week, however, with festivities over, the schools back, things are slowly returning to a little more routine… and with not working onsite, I have been able to get on with things a little more quietly… whilst working remotely. 

Working remotely in my house is not exactly serene, but it is a different pace. I would linked to to working in the school library, rather than that free period in room 3B!… Now I am sure many people preferred the break room or common room, but I was firmly in the library camp (yes, with my little briefcase… lol), not only as I didn’t have to duck to avoid paper-based projectiles, but because I could focus and concentrate.

And, often it is in these moments that you notice things the most. Like today. Today was the day I really noticed the cat was gone. 

My normal routine:

  • 2 (very) large cups of tea… before a few meetings first thing.
  • Around 10:30 – get up and make a fresh coffee…

It was at this point I realised I would normally go to pet the cat and check she is okay (it relaxed me too)… except this time she was, of course, not there. 

Now it is only a small thing, and as mentioned, I was not too upset, but it did make me realise how often it is the small things that make you notice change. They can have a disproportionately big impact.

Back in the office… with my coffee… this got me thinking about how important it is to pay attention to other small moments too.

So, it is not necessarily the big wins, grand gestures and shiny things that can have the big impact… the quiet and steady presence, little touches, just being there for folks matter too.

Pound for pound – dollar for dollar, the impact of these can after all be very effective… the challenge… effort is required! As a result, they can be all too easy to put to one side, often only realising when it is too late. Money is, after all is simple if you have it.

So a surprise spring resolution… to try to look after the little things a little more, be there for folks and try to not worry so much about being that quiet(er) presence in the corner.

Welcome back, everyone.

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