Once again the World Cup is over, and I am rattling around the house wondering what to do with myself in the evening. There have been some good matches and certainly plenty of intrigue, together with change. We have had hydration breaks, a new extended 30-minute half-time show and, of course, plenty of discussion about VAR. It certainly felt bigger, louder and more commercial this time around.
But, what struck me, was not just the increased commercialisation, but the level of controversy and emotion surrounding the competition.
A louder World Cup
Now there is always controversy at a World Cup. Penalty shoot outs… a failure to spot handballs (that still hurts), dives resulting in fouls and fouls resulting in well nothing… depending the side we are supporting, there are always plenty of disputed refereeing decisions (‘we was robbed’). But, year, these arguments sounded a little louder.
Maybe it was because social media it seemed was filled with debate, and conspiracy theories; referee bias, VAR decisions, player behaviour and how individual matches were being managed. The social feeds were buzzing. Even decisions to show celebrities during games, managed to draw the ire of supporters.
Negative emotions ran high, and probably higher than I can remember for previous tournaments.
It seemed like, we all increasingly got drawn into a world of goodies and baddies…. my team vs yours, my tribe vs the others, for teams, players and supporters
But, how much of this was happening naturally, vs how much this was being amplified…
Controversy keeps us watching
Controversy creates engagement, engagement draws an audience… and the bigger the audience the more money is made. Certainly there was a lot of attention and engagement this time around.
Now of course, in the cold light of day, after a cold bath, most of us don’t approve. Aggressive behaviour on or off the pitch is not acceptable… But, with emotions are riding high, it is hard to get sucked in and football punditry loves it too.
A disputed decision gives commentators (and us) something to discuss before, during and long after the final whistle for the match. It generates television coverage, online clips, newspaper headlines, podcasts, social media posts and endless conversations between supporters.
The wheel turns and driving more passion in the supporters, resulting in us being more emotionally invested in the outcome. Supporters of one country start backing another, not because they particularly want the team to win, just because they desperately want someone else to lose.
It is an increasingly divisive and toxic mix.
A calm discussion about a reasonably well-refereed match does just not generate the same engagement as anger, injustice and accusations of bias. We may say we all dislike the controversy, but it certainly does keep us watching.
Competition changes us
Competition is exciting because people care about the result. Players want to win. Supporters want their team to succeed. Passion, the anticipation of success, the comradery of failure, is all part of what makes sport worth watching and keeps us coming back for more.
There is nothing wrong with striving to win, being assertive, ambitious or determined. The difficulty comes when assertiveness becomes naked aggression. When the desire to win becomes more important than how we get there, how we behave.
The opposition are seen not simply as another team, but the enemy. Referees are judged as corrupt rather than mistaken. Supporters on the other side are lowlife rather than just people experiencing what is the same match from a different perspective. It is all too easy to excuse poor behaviour from our own side while condemning exactly the same behaviour from someone else. We have lost sight of the bigger picture
It in these moments, it is worth taking a step back. The desire to win should not remove our ability to recognise humanity. Is putting this aside just to win, really winning? And at what cost?
Heroes and villains
This of course does not only just apply to football. The same tensions exist in business, particularly when we think about leadership, competition, and how organisations grow.
How controversial should we be to attract attention? How aggressive should we be to make money? At what expense of employees, customers and even those around us in the industry is acceptable? There are always trade off’s, where do we draw the line?
We all need to work hard to grow, express our views, challenge poor decisions and compete to succeed, but like we saw this world cup, taken too far, can easily slide into aggression. A focus on winning becomes a desire to defeat, embarrass or diminish someone else. Colleagues become obstacles. Competitors become enemies. Customers become numbers. The objective becomes so important that behaviour which would once have felt unacceptable becomes gradually justified.
And again, this is when we need to step back and remember the wider picture.
Businesses are not only just systems for generating revenue, they are communities of people, customers, employees, competitors and suppliers.
And, businesses are not judged solely on financial performance (even if we think it is). Customer treatment, employee treatment and industry reputation matters too (without if you lose business).
So after watching this year’s World Cup, in all its entertaining, emotional and occasionally infuriating nature, it is also time to pause for reflection, check my emotions, take a step back and look at the bigger picture.
Yes we may want to win, but if it costs us our humanity it is not worth it.
Something to take back to the office. Have a good week, everyone.